One union two worlds: Benson & Hae-Young
Thu, March 09 2006

"She thinks I am quirky and animated."
 
NAME
His: Benson
Her: Hae-Young
AGE
Darren: 23
Maria: 21
PLACE OF BIRTH
Darren: Vancouver, BC
Maria: Seoul, South Korea
ETHNICITY
Darren: Chinese
Maria: Korean
EDUCATION/DEGREE/OCCUPATION
Darren: Post-secondary/Economics/Cook (for now)
Maria: Post-secondary/Work in progress/Waitress and student
HOW LONG HAVE YOU BEEN TOGETHER?
Just about four months
HOW DID YOU MEET?
Through a mutual friend
WHAT DO YOU LIKE THE MOST ABOUT HER/HIS CULTURE?
Darren: The food and their language. It sounds so powerful yet so polite at the same time.
Maria: The food (of course) and I also really enjoy the Chinese pop and entertainment culture.
WHAT DO YOU DISLIKE OR FIND PECULIAR ABOUT HER/HIS CULTURE?
Darren: Over-emphasis on respect for the male and elders.
Maria: They can be quite loud somethimes especially in public places! The one child policy in China doesn't make me too happy either.
HOW DID YOUR PARENTS REACT TO THE RELATIONSHIP?
Darren: No reaction. Indifferent would be a fitting word.
Maria: They don't have much of a reaction. I think I'm old enough now in their eyes.
WHAT IS YOUR FAVOURITE FOOD OR DISH FROM HER/HIS CULTURE?
Darren: All dishes, I don't discriminate! Ok, but if i had to, I'd say kimchi all the way.
Maria: Lotus leaf wrapped sticky rice. I could live off that stuff!
WHAT WOULD YOU DESCRIBE YOURSELF AS?
Darren: I am very easygoing and I say things before I think.
Maria: Plain, easygoing and polite.
WHAT WOULD SHE/HE DESCRIBE YOU AS?
Darren: Quirky and animated.
Maria: Timid in front of people she doesn't know, and likes to spoil people. (lucky him!)